by Ricky Doc Sauceda
Romans 12:9
Love must be sincere. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good.
My EX was interviewed after the death of a fellow college employee of the University of Houston. He was the media person at the time. I discovered the news article after we separated. I was searching for why I had to part from her...she had gone deeply astray from me at the time.
I actually had known Roy because I regularly visited my "then wife" after I had finished my work at a nearby company. She was quoted in the interview as saying,"He was my best friend."
Well...a husband is supposed to be be his wife's best friend and vice versa.
I was stunned. I called her to discuss this with her.She said,"Oh, you don't care. You have no idea of what he meant to me."
NO...it was her that never realized how much she meant to me. I regarded her as my eternal partner. She obviously never felt that way about me.
Damn strong awakening for me. I am glad I walked away from her. But it hurt to do it.